Today is my son’s 8th birthday 🙂 Hard to believe he is that old but harder to believe that I have not been allowed to see him in 30 months for no reason. I am not a child abuser, drug abuser or any danger to my son. I was allowed to be a part of his life for 5 1/2 years and he was always happy, healthy and well taken care of while in my care.
So I ask myself why a good father has been denied access to his child for over 2 years? Oh, I almost forgot about the parental alienation from his vindictive mother. Or the way she uses the broken, corrupt, unjust family courts and laws to keep him from me.
There are many people that say Parental Alienation or PA is not a real thing. Those same people have either never had their children kept from them, are guilty of PA themselves, or profit from its use.
March 16th, 2015
It saddens me that you have decided to cut me out of our (yep, it took both of us to create him) child’s life because of your own selfish desire to hurt me. I am not surprised as you made it clear early in his life that if I wasn’t with you, I would only see him when you allowed. You even threatened to kill our child so my family and I couldn’t see him!
I appreciate that I got to teach him a lot and see some of his “firsts” because you allowed me to watch him while you worked. I also appreciated the time I was allowed to watch him while you dated your now husband. Thank God I was able to spend time with him to discover he was having seizures and get him treatment. I am sorry I took you to court but you put that on yourself by failing to give him his seizure medication.
I appreciate you allowing our son to come to California for 3 weeks in 2013. I appreciate you allowing our son to spend a week with me on his Christmas break in 2013. Hmmm…I am a great daddy and our son loves me but you won’t allow our son to visit in over a year?
What makes it worse is you know his daddy is sick, yet you still have no soul…
Just because the law gives you all the power, does not mean you should use it to hurt our child. Sure, you are hurting me but you are destroying our innocent child with your actions. I know how to cope with crazy adults that only care about themselves but our child does not have that ability. Your actions have continued to show how much you do not care about anyone but yourself.
Everyone wants to throw out the word “deadbeat” for fathers but any mother that stands in the way of her children having a relationship with their father is the true “deadbeat.” You take it even further by being college educated but not working while collecting money from the citizens of Indiana. I forgot, you do babysit for cash so you are not sitting on your lazy behind doing nothing all day…oh, I almost forgot that our son was touched inappropriately by one of the children your were to be “WATCHING!”
I know your response will be how you carried him for 9 months so that makes our child YOUR property. I can not change that I was born with male reproductive organs and can not experience the miracle of child birth. Trust me if I could, I would!! Being male does not make me less of a parent. How are you going to feel when our son has children and some female does, to our son and his family, what you are doing right now?
How are you going to explain to our son what you have done when he finally figures out that YOU chose to hurt him to get back at his daddy?
There is still time for you to repair the damage that has been done but that window gets smaller each day that you fail to recognize your bad behavior.
Your actions will eventually have consequences whether you have to answer to our son or God.
Parental Alienation is child abuse! The emotional and psychological damage is severe and can last a lifetime. Parental Alienation causes the child to have low self esteem, self hatred, lack of trust, depression, substance abuse and many other issues that they would not otherwise suffer.
Suddenly taking a 5 1/2 year olds involved, loving father, stepmom and 4 siblings that he loves out of his life is abuse. The abuse is not to one child but 5 innocent children as his siblings are just as affected by the alienation.
A parent that loves their child would never hurt them by cutting out their other loving parent.